sheesh. i just married one. lol...

he can't borrow money from me though, i ain't got none.

and- we discussed these traits before we did the deed. i'll kick his ass if i have to (he'll prolly like it though), both virgo and aquarius. the aquarian conspiracy is taking on a whole new meaning!

the =four agreements= are our vows.

Wait a sec... is this about a virgo?

lol so that is one of the best negative descriptions for aquarius! seriously........ it left me wandering in the lonely world of aquarian for a while.... you know many of us believe we are meant to walk alone, never to be understood....except maybe by other aquarians.... lol but I can see the positive in most everything you've stated ~ "a bright and shiny idealism" as stated in something about air signs in general

>>He flits from one woman to the next, even when he professes to be in love. 'The grass is always greener' syndrome times 10.<<

Aquarians are likely to be poly in life, and I've read similar for virgo as well. I believe it is not that the grass is greener but that monogamy is "too heavy a price to pay. Their is so much to be experienced so many different people, so many perspectives to be gained and so little time. I love making connections growing through them and knowing that tomorrow may bring yet another person in my life.. yet another aspect that adds to my Organized chaos."

I believe it is very possible to become interested in others and still really love someone or even more then one "someone"

one of my favorite quotes: " Love is like knowledge, giving it away does not diminish what you know"

the letting go thing, well I'll give you that. but I've been lookin for the exact statement and can't find it..... but it was something to the effect of the fact that the aquarius will try perhaps too long to make something work because of our idealism..... but when we decide to not expend anymore energy then we will walk away and not look back. I guess sometimes we just might take longer then most... i'm sure that that is sometimes good and sometimes bad

yeah..... money and time management....... sometimes other aspects of the chart come out and help but for the most part we are screwed, lol...... But it is just how we are ;) and if you are along for the ride, sometimes it can be rather fun!

>>He really isn't able to put himself in other's shoes, at least not until after they're already in pain. He doesn't understand the consequences of most of his actions, he sees things as very simplistic until presented with the complexities of the issue. He has an overwhelming desire to apease everyone, which means he's always stretching himself too thin.... I could go on<<

So I truely believe that most things are simplistic...... or they can be. maybe THAT is just the difference.
and from an aquarian description: "they'll genuinely strive to understand your point of view because they believe so passionately in fairness." aquarians love honesty and equality! but maybe to others our approach is too simplistic..... eh

I definitely stretch myself to thin sometimes..... ok all the time..... but never to bring harm to myself or others.... Aquarians love to help others and humanity. can be annoying to significant others i'm sure..... from an aqua description: "don't expect her/him (aquarius) to make you her/his only cause". We are just always thinking bout the world at large.

lol I'm sure we can go back and forth forever with the pro and cons....... I know this cause I do it in my head all the time..... aquarius sun / virgo rising ;)

Do you have any aquarius or other air signs prominent in your chart? What is your rising sign? and the rising of your aqua man? just curious

thanks for the brain food!