The only thing that can suggest is to let her talk and reassure her, that she is a beautiful person. That all that has happened to her, are but lessons.

Many times, Virgos won't say exactly whats going with them. They are so busy helping everyone else out, that they forget they that should take the help that is available for them also. At good friend of mine is a Virgo, and this guy picks me up for church every Sunday morning. One time he looked so sad, I asked him what was wrong, and he said "Nothing" I knew better, and all said to him was: You know what _____, when God made you, he broke the mold into a thousand pieces, there will be none like you, there is none like you, and there will never be one like you, again. You are a masterpiece, and I'm glad that you are my friend." I could see the smile on his face, and I almost saw a tear in his eye. That made him feel better. And was sincere, when I said it. Sincere compliments, hugs, and a gentle smile, will hopefully make her feel better. Also, remind her, that she is needed, and wanted and loved, by you, and cared about by us.

Sebastian

Something is making her cling to her negative energy, she cycles round and round in it. We have laughs for a few minutes, but then it's back to being an ouch cube for her. I really miss the vibrant and fun lady she used to be. The negative cloud drains my precious positive energy away...

Virgo Sun, Virgo Asc, Virgo Venus, all in the first house speaking here, I am currently in a real negative spin myself and I think it has to do with all the Scorpionic energy running through the sky lately. It forces us Virgos to confront truth in our relationships. All that energy finding the underlying truth of each interaction can worry a person like myself. Too much to question to much to consider. There is just too much of late.

I need a mini vacation and a chance to stop thinking. Maybe your woman does too. Take her out, usurp some of her responsibility, treat her extra nice. Buena Suerte hermano....

adiaha

Thank you all so much for your insight, I've taken lots of advice that I learned in this thread and applied it directly to my Virgo lady in an attempt to lift the black negative cloud that was keeping her down.

Basically I sat her down and asked her if she had anything positive to say about herself. We took her answers and used them to pull her out of her negative swing. That is one of the things I love about Virgos, if you apply enough simple rational logic to a situation, they will eventually respond regardless of their emotional state.

She pulls out of her spin a lot faster when she feels good about herself. Trying to pump up her morale and keep her in a positive head space.