So am I the only one that has amazing passionate encounters with the fish? there may be other fish in the sea buit damn if there all this good more please.
I have played with dated etc pisces many a time and yes found myself insanley attrackted and uhhh acting on it yetr again YAY!
amazing sex, amazing intenstity.. but they tend to fall to bits in short time.. im worried any input
I have played with dated etc pisces many a time and yes found myself insanley attrackted and uhhh acting on it yetr again YAY!
amazing sex, amazing intenstity.. but they tend to fall to bits in short time.. im worried any input
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Re: Virgo + Pisces
Mon, November 21, 2005 - 7:45 PMFrom my experience, I agree with this 100%. From what I've read, the male Picsean can have a hard time with "meat and potatoes sex" and monogamy for long periods of time. Though he may desire and even set up a family, he still struggles. Anyone else read anything on it? -
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Tue, November 22, 2005 - 7:31 AMI'm head over heels in love with a Pisces (we met on tribe!) and yes, the sex is wild and intense for both of us and we connect on such a deep level.
For my part I've always had a strong need for variety and spice in a sexual relationship and I get bored very quickly. Part of the joy of my Pisces man is that he shares all my fetishes and perversions and my sense of adventure in and out of bed. We both understand this about ourselves and each other and are confident we can continue to grow and explore together.
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Tue, November 22, 2005 - 7:52 AMThe sex that I had with my Pisces men was great! Like water flowing over me... The relationship was great, the only problem I had with all 3 of them was addiction. Mainly alcohol. Weird? I had to end it because of this. -
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Wed, January 9, 2008 - 1:36 PMI know exactly what you mean! The same thing happened to me- my ex pisces became a completely different person when he drank. And hence, I had to end it.
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Tue, November 22, 2005 - 11:11 AMLol... this is classic right here.
Opposites... hmmmmm... I swam 4 years in an ocean and her mom was Pisces too so I call it the double dose...hehe. Amazing sex, and I dont know if its just my situation but has anyone else experienced that Pisces have an urge to be scandalous as can be? Our relationship was like %200 love, %200 war. Now that we broke up we are the best of friends and our opposites complement each other when on the dancefloor as well as in conversation. Better match for friends or soulmates more so than lovers... Just my journey through hell though....lmao~~~
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Wed, November 23, 2005 - 2:04 AMAwww c'mon! Doesn't anyone have any successful Virgo-Pisces love stories?
I guess my love and I will have to be pioneers :P
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Wed, November 23, 2005 - 8:10 PMThis is an interesting post for me to read. I've read plenty on opposite signs attracting, but for me, it's like Pisces men have Wendy repellent on them. I learned the meaning of soporific from a Pisces man.
On the other hand, I have some really rocking Pisces women in my life (with lots of Aries planets).
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Wed, March 1, 2006 - 2:37 PMThe biggest love of my life was a Pisces. Still is, i guess, since i still love her and always will, and since she was my last, and i haven't fallen for anyone since.
I say without reservation that we had a spiritual or soulmate connection. It was very personal and other people simply didn't enter our world. It was a rarified atmosphere. I never remember one of us being awake when the other wasn't; it seemed impossible to fall asleep if the other couldn't for some reason. And we dreamed the same dreams and woke up out of deep sleep at the same time in the weirdest moods - matching moods. A lot of strange stuff like this.
But we had poor communication. We assumed a lot of what the other thought but found out later that we were totally off. We were both young and insecure, and i was possessive and jealous. It wasn't the right timing. Our sex was mostly uncreative i think. She was unsure of herself and passive and i got resentful and turned-off, thinking she just wasn't interested.
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Wed, March 1, 2006 - 2:45 PMditto on the communication probs.. the whole assuming what the other was thinking, being way off... yet still assuming yet again...
for me it was frustrating because, i'm usually fairly intuitive, she would osberve me being such with others... then get annoyed if i didn't ALWAYS just guess what she was thinking.. ;'< i was kind of like.. "but i love to talk... let's talk..." she was not so into the "deep conversation" thing.
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Thu, March 2, 2006 - 12:36 AM"she was not so into the "deep conversation" thing."
Since when are Pisceans deep into ANYTHING but themselves?!! No, I guess I'm being too harsh. I hear Pisces are "spiritual" souls and sensitive. I was married to one for almost 20 years and it was as close to pure hell as you could get. A bonafide, true blue STRAY CAT! Couldn't fathom the meaning of the words commitment, depth, communication, give-n-take, COMPROMISE!!, or emotional expression. Quite charming and gentlemanly while dating, which is what wooed me. But, boy, did the true colors show right after the "I do."
Sex? Great at the beginning, fair to middlin' in the middle, and finally downright disgusting. Guy was like a robot in bed--so out of tune with me and my physical needs/desires that years and years into the marriage, I'm still yelling right in the middle of the act, "Would you PLEASE not do that to me?!? I've told you for years I HATE that!"
So out of tune with reality, me, himself, and pretty much everything. I certainly don't believe this typifies your average Pisces--mine was just so extremely immature and shallow. Literally. Very narrow-minded, childish, narcissistic individual and I think that makes a big difference than if he'd been a basically mature, intelligent individual. I think I just was digging too deeply in the bottom of the barrel (as my Virgo self would tend to do) and inadvertently hit upon the rotten apple.
Which is why I'm now investigating Virgo men (I've started a new thread)! Virgo and Pisces are polar opposites, so they say, and after 20 years experience, I can say sometimes opposites DON'T attract. You get too far opposite and you have absolutely nothing in common . In our situation, I wound up doing virtually all the "work" in the relationship and got very, very little in return. I was the rutter, the anchor, the helm, the sails, AND the captain. He was the hull of the ship drifting aimlessly on life's open ocean with no clue where he was or where he was going . . . . the problem was he didn't even seem to mind that, but it liked-to drove this Virgo crazy!!!! As if all that weren't bad enough, he was horrible with money. The camel's back eventually broke and I finally had to bid him adieu.
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Thu, March 2, 2006 - 12:43 AMhuh.....
i didn't even THINK about that.. the space cadet vs. the hyper-vigilant attention to detail thing.... that does kind of clash, huh?
WOAH (insert flashing light bulb)...
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Thu, March 2, 2006 - 1:41 PM>> didn't even THINK about that.. the space cadet vs. the hyper-vigilant attention to detail thing..<<
yup...Ive never been able to date one. Actually I was engaged to one....yet we are much better off as friends.
And she's my closest friend still today.
the sex was mos def excellent!
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Re: Virgo + Pisces
Wed, March 8, 2006 - 2:30 PMwow... I have many pisces in my life (mother, sister, niece, cat and friends).
All I know and can advise on is don't work on the relationship... (sounds odd I know) work on yourself and your issues and quit butting in on theirs!!! Attraction rather than promotion. They'll get there when they get there (that goes for everyone not just our pisces). Share yourself and give without expectation... and if you're suppose to be with that person it'll be there, if not it won't. Oh and watch out for the resentments in any relationship - quickest killer!
I was lucky not too long ago to have a friend (male pisces) point out that our pisces like to have a fantasy life. So the trick is to make what you have together more desireable and more interesting than any fantasy. You should have little sayings, jokes, looks that you only have together and are secret! Don't even tell your girlfriends!!! We also have to realize that when they really trust us... they won't tell you, but rather it's in what they tell you. So be careful not to expose what they're telling you to your girlfriends or co-worker. Yeah, not big on the verbal communication, but hey who often do us virgo express our deepest feelings, fears? Who know's we could even learn to have a little fun!
We have to have patience and restraint of pen and tounge with our pisces!!!! They are very sensitive... ie. the fish feels all the different currents in the water. They want someone that's exciting but that can also be quiet, meditate and be spiritual.
I will agree with everyone here about the sex! Wow, only time I've had anyone catch my attention for any length of time without getting bored!
We virgos are quick to judge someone that doesn't see or do things our way, but who's to say that our way is best!
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Wed, March 8, 2006 - 7:55 PMhey catherine...very insightful post.
i personally have never had any romantic relations with pisces people, yet, i find myself very drawn to them for the deep, spiritual energy they give off. i work with two pisces (one male and one female) and i find that i have the best conversations with them. and, they are also very in tune to emotions, feelings and the deeper meaning of situations, when others are very surface-level. i take comfort in their company and support.
i think their most endearing qualities are their laid back attitude and their easy going nature. they are very helpful too...which is a nice complement to us virgos who are here to serve. i read somewhere that virgos have the ideas and the analytical qualities to back any idea/project but we would flourish with the imaginative help of pisces to see the idea/project through to successful completion. would'nt this theory hold true to relationships, too?
peace all. :)
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Thu, March 9, 2006 - 2:13 PMBeing a Pisces sun person who has just "concluded" (?) a most invigorating relationship with a woman who has most of her chart in Virgo, I should have something to say. I hesitate, because i'm still bitter over the my conclusion that she never got to know me. Yall can have it so together in the worldly sense, and you obviously sincerely care about/for the things that you see . . . but if I can only offer a frustrated and perhaps cutting criticism (because I know how much y'all go for that kind of thing - lol), it's that you're handicapped when it comes to fathoming the ethereal world that we live in. We may seem mysteriously attractive, and we may be able to use you in some ways to ground ourselves, but we could starve to death waiting for any sense of being understood by you. And when it goes sour, your judgement of our lack of "worth" can be hurtful. --- awww . . . the fish is feeling sorry for himself again :-) -
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Thu, March 9, 2006 - 2:21 PMSteve, I think I am guilty of this. I was in a relationship with a pisces for a long time, but he also never wanted to look inside himself at his own faults, it was really easy for him to turn the blame outward. Also, for some reason, he liked to "ruffle my feathers", just to see how I would react. I don't like being tested. As for his worth, he was much more of a judge of that than I. By the way, your main pic is always so cool. -
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Thu, March 9, 2006 - 3:22 PMoh, but you're not "guilty" at all (can you tell that i'm trying to forgive her).
no matter how much we may care foor a person, or more importantly, how much they care for us, we don't owe anyone anything other than to be ourselves. some say that virgo/pisces is THE most codependent of all of the pairings. i don't think that i've ever felt as addicted to another person than i was with this last person. when we finally consumated our relationship with sex, after years of heavy flirting which only lasted for so long because she was married, it was the most incredible weekend that i've ever spent in a bed. for days afterwards, i could feel her physically as if she had infiltrated every cell in my body. i have probably never felt so IN love in my life . . .and it was mutual. it was almost embarrassing, in that i'd convinced myself long ago that we are really the cause of our own happiness and sorrows. but, damn, i didn't even know that i hadn't been happy when that relationship came along and swept me off my feet. i felt like a goddam teenager!
anyway, rollercoaster rides being what they are, i'd gladly repeat the experience right up to the way that i'm left feeling today . . . in a heartbeat. fucking pedestrian virgos. -
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Fri, March 10, 2006 - 7:35 PMyeah I am a more spirtual erethral virgo... libra rising aquarian moon :-) but yes I am still more grounded than my Picsean male counterparts... but man oh man oh man the connection ....
Still with my beloved fish BTW and I'm crazy about him
However I am growing more concerned about another trait I have seen in picseas
finacial irresponsibility, hmmmm
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Fri, March 10, 2006 - 8:10 AM<<it was really easy for him to turn the blame outward>>
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Fri, March 10, 2006 - 8:12 AMYeah, it's funny that way, huh? Even with my Virgos, all of them! lol -
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Mon, March 20, 2006 - 10:36 AMDragging thread up as am not on here so often any more - my last longish relationship 6 months was with a fish.
It was very very odd - sex was good - not spectacular tho - In actuality I think I scared him (I have a lot of leo and he had a lot of cap). Right about the co-dependancy thing - he called me a couple of days ago to tell me that he has a gf as he found out i wasnt single. I think it didnt have much to do with his sign - i think it was a brain power - or lack thereof thing. he was very threatned over my book learnin'. The only fish girl I had in my life became a bit single white female dependant and still owes me money.
I think the ether is a nice place to breathe in but the bread you eat up there doesnt fill you with enough energy to 'get up and feed the children' in the morning. i think this is the fish virgo issue i came up with. also lots of talking and not much doing about that ether either. But think cathrine (cant see your post think it was you - not cathrine that started the thread) is right - these tend to be our own issues. I treated my fish very badly and flinged with a sexy leo whilst he was passed out on holiday. we virgos can be very naughty - lukily my aries,leo and gemini friends are kept amused by it.
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Thu, September 13, 2007 - 12:40 PMThanks for your point of view - it was enlightening. from another virgo to another...
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Wed, January 2, 2008 - 11:57 PMhahah it was refreshing for me, a sag, to become involved with a virgo after so many pisces destroying my heart. i love the fishes, but....man, avoiding confrontation, deceptive, selfish, martyr complex, womanizer, alcoholic, yet come off as passionate, deep, one claimed to worship the goddess ( yeah right). to be fair they were those good things, but were all the bad things too...BAD! the fucking sex was always goods with the fishes though. damn them!
here comes this really sweet, smart, non addicted to something virgo guy who wasnt a womanizer. wow!!!
but strangely enough he was more spontaneous than even i was and im a sag. and that was almost worse than the pisces being unable to commit to something! haha..
but, even in the end i still respect him..
as for the fishes well, i luv em but i cant be with them anymore. and i know thousands of them. this planet is swimming with pisces.
i dunno how virgo and pisces would fare...
good luck... have fun maybe dont expect too much?
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Sat, January 5, 2008 - 8:43 PMkatherine im glad you spoke your mind!
ive never had a relationship with one, but two of whom i know strikes me as very self-absorbed, only think about themselves, like to "martyrs", like to be "victimized" so they feel better about themselves. the third one i know initially struck me as very dreamy, but everyone i talked to was in shock i felt that way because to them it was obvious he was self-absorbed. im not really sure, but i think he's a nice guy.
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Re: Virgo + Pisces
Mon, March 20, 2006 - 1:01 PMThese are very interesting comments. I've honestly been single way too long after a divorce to a Scorpie... (let's not go there) and will be having a Pisces as a roommate her in a few months. The oddball thing is she and I have been talking to each other for over 7 1/2 years online and are sorta attracted to each other. We finally met this past weekend and now I'm trying to get advice to find out if I should try to chase this one down for a relationship (have to share her with a few other gals, which I don't mind) BUT is it worth it? I've stared into her eyes and glipsed a gorgeous soul, much more than the attractive body that's it's shell.... I actually have gotten myself confused over the last few days... Any suggestions ladies or even guys who have gotten it to work? -
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Mon, March 20, 2006 - 1:55 PMBe yourself, be yourself, be yourself. That's when my ex (Pisces) liked me most. There's no need to prove anything. And be spontaneous, just say stupid funny stuff that comes to you - she laughed a lot at goofy stuff i said, and liked that. And don't control her, don't feel threatened by things she does in her own life - appreciate and support her.
Basic stuff, but that's some of my experience.
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Mon, March 20, 2006 - 2:00 PMWait, i just double-taked (double-took?) on that part about sharing her with a few other gals . . .
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Tue, March 21, 2006 - 3:20 AMShe's Bi and that doesn't frighten me because she's one who has always needed a man... -
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Tue, March 21, 2006 - 11:52 AMcouple of things: i wouldnt live with her if this is the state of play - and the poly thing is totally personal - if you are cool with it yay! if not doesnt matter what sex you are sharing her with. my experience - Virgos = promiscuous and very jealous bad combo if you are not sure...
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Wed, March 29, 2006 - 10:21 AM"Virgos = promiscuous and very jealous bad combo if you are not sure... "
It might be worth putting these qualities to the test and learning from them (my scorpio parts suggest).
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Wed, March 29, 2006 - 9:39 AMAbsolutely, Dave. I agree that my Pisces man loves me most when I am honestly being myself - even if it's eccentric, weird, nitpicky, curmudgeonly, irreverant, impulsive, volatile or anything else. The other thing to do is to communicate - if you can both do that you'll have a good chance. -
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Re: Virgo + Pisces -- Re: my original post
Wed, March 29, 2006 - 10:08 PMCommunicate... well, that's come to a screeching halt. I'm not quite sure why, apparently I spooked her - shy in the real world aparently. Do Pisces not understand that if you talk to someone for 7 1/2 years, one should give VITAL information like this out before the actual meeting? Being who I am, I was nervous about the initial meeting, but after that, I got into the "friendly" (non-sexual) mode... It scared her, now I'm methodically being removed from lists and she won't return emails, etc. Being polite and not calling, and even mentioned that - she reads 'em and does nothing else. Well, that answers that for me on this particular Pisces... -
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Wed, March 29, 2006 - 10:18 PMwild, as the pisces male i've got similar gripes about a Virgo . . . she spooked too easily, IMO, but I guess that's not for me to say. -
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Re: Virgo + Pisces -- Re: my original post
Thu, March 30, 2006 - 3:57 AMNothing is set in stone. Our charts give us an insight into our deepest selves, we aren't doomed to live a certain stereotype just because we are a Virgo (Cancer moon and Pisces rising, here). All the other aspects of the chart add to or detract from our Sun sign, etc. If we are aware of the different aspects and see that we are inclined to do certain things, and don't like those things, we can always change them. We can try to take what we consider the best and the healthiest for us and leave the rest. -
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Re: Virgo + Pisces -- Re: my original post
Fri, March 31, 2006 - 6:47 AMEnchantress is absolutely right. I used to think astrology in general was nonsense because all the popular-astrology descriptions of Virgo didn't fit me very well at all. I related much more to Sagitarius and concluded the whole thing must be crap.
However, my Pisces partner is quite into astrology and spent a lot of time with me debunking the 'popular-astrology' model and showing me the science behind it and explaining how all the other factors in our chart contribute to influencing us. When I read my full chart it does apply to me a lot more accurately but there are still some stark inconsistencies and he showed me how my life-experiences have wrought changes in me. Also, over time I have come to recognise some of my inherent flaws and guard against them, which again makes aspects of my chart seem inaccurate.
It can certainly be a useful guide to help you recognise and take full advantage of your strengths and to guard against your weaknesses. Understanding a partner's chart can do the same in your relationship.
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Re: Virgo + Pisces -- Re: my original post
Fri, March 31, 2006 - 7:25 AMconsciously (or otherwise) our free wills often compensate in manners that are (perfectly?) opposite to our inherent traits.
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Mon, August 14, 2006 - 3:08 PMi'm a virgo. i find myself insanllllllllllllyyyyyyy attracted to pisces! in fact, i had this mad crush at skol, found out e was a pisces..hmm, spookkkkyy
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Tue, August 15, 2006 - 9:15 PMWell I am now 9mo with my fish and living together... not so bad but hmm yeah communication
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Thu, October 19, 2006 - 7:24 AMI am a pisces and I dated a virgo for a couple of months, and honestly, he is the love of my life and i'm pregnant now by him. apparently i didnt know that we had problems (communication is repeated on this posting) and the day after i find out... he dumps me for his ex. ew. well, she didnt want to take him back, and because of the baby, he and i are having to communicate daily over the phone, minus the alcohol, which helps us actually say what we mean.
i think virgos are passionate and accessible, and confident. i admire that so much. i dont really notice my exes as "planners" they just complete me. they're great as long as communication is there. when it waivers though, you need to fight to get it back, because pisces will get trapped in it's head, and virgo will too. we're non-confrontational.
it's something that you have to work VERY hard at.
and VIRGO:
LET US FLOAT... that's why you love us, right? don't tie me down!
anyway, me and my virgo are having a gemini baby... is that just the most perfect thing or what?
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Re: Virgo + Pisces
Thu, October 19, 2006 - 2:53 PMI can only speak for myself, but I am divorced from a Pisces. We were together for about 6 years and we were great friends......but that's what it was and felt like.....friendship. It was stale and sex was routine.....not the passion I was looking for......maybe because my Venus is Leo? My theory is....if you're not feeling it, you are not feeling it. Chemistry cannot be forced. -
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Sun, October 22, 2006 - 7:27 AMI'm a Virgo who is engaged to a wonderful Pisces man. We've been together for five years and it is pure bliss. I think the Virgo Woman/Pisces man is a strong combination...particularly if you have other complimentary planets. My Pisces guy is kind, sensitive and a good listener -- he calms me down when my Virgo nervous energy and worrywart tendencies arise. He's taught me how to relax, veg out and just enjoy the day. I used to be the type who could never sit still -- if I wasn't working, I was exercising or cleaning or running needless errands. I think with compatibility issues, it is always helpful to check the other person's Mars, Venus and Chinese astrology signs. My fiancee is a Pisces Pig and I'm a Virgo Cat -- a good western/chinese astrological combo. And, while I'm here, I want to send my love and good vibes to ALL the Virgos out there! I love being a Virgo and I think other Virgos are just fabulous.
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