wow... I have many pisces in my life (mother, sister, niece, cat and friends).
All I know and can advise on is don't work on the relationship... (sounds odd I know) work on yourself and your issues and quit butting in on theirs!!! Attraction rather than promotion. They'll get there when they get there (that goes for everyone not just our pisces). Share yourself and give without expectation... and if you're suppose to be with that person it'll be there, if not it won't. Oh and watch out for the resentments in any relationship - quickest killer!
I was lucky not too long ago to have a friend (male pisces) point out that our pisces like to have a fantasy life. So the trick is to make what you have together more desireable and more interesting than any fantasy. You should have little sayings, jokes, looks that you only have together and are secret! Don't even tell your girlfriends!!! We also have to realize that when they really trust us... they won't tell you, but rather it's in what they tell you. So be careful not to expose what they're telling you to your girlfriends or co-worker. Yeah, not big on the verbal communication, but hey who often do us virgo express our deepest feelings, fears? Who know's we could even learn to have a little fun!
We have to have patience and restraint of pen and tounge with our pisces!!!! They are very sensitive... ie. the fish feels all the different currents in the water. They want someone that's exciting but that can also be quiet, meditate and be spiritual.
I will agree with everyone here about the sex! Wow, only time I've had anyone catch my attention for any length of time without getting bored!
We virgos are quick to judge someone that doesn't see or do things our way, but who's to say that our way is best!
That is what I've been learning.....

"Virgos = promiscuous and very jealous bad combo if you are not sure... "

It might be worth putting these qualities to the test and learning from them (my scorpio parts suggest).

wild, as the pisces male i've got similar gripes about a Virgo . . . she spooked too easily, IMO, but I guess that's not for me to say.

I guess the question of the day is: Do you do whatever you can to make yourself happy, even if it is at the expense of other innocent people?<<

for me, this is a very timely question. I'm a "mature" pisces male who has been in love more than once, and THE love of my life is a married virgo woman. It's getting to be a fairly long story at this point, but she pretty much cut it off about a year ago because it was more than her previously aloof husband could handle, and her kids' well being, her need for stability (boring husband's sizable income) etc. were all working against us. In addition to our romance, we had a working relationship in which we'd carved out a unique niche. In and of itself, or love is virtually perfect and profound and all of that, but given the circumstances, it sucks.
there were some majorly hurt feelings on both sides of the breakup, not to mention a virtual loss of purpose on my end. Anyway, after not speaking with each other at all for about 6 months, I initiated an effort to restore our friendship and perhaps bring a more contented closure to the whole affair. One careful and considerate conversation was followed by several more over the course of the past couple of months. It was feeling pretty good . . . well . . . it was kind of heart wrenching, but it felt important that we heal some of the mutual resentments that came about during the breakup. And we were doing a pretty good job of it really, until she called last night to say that her husband had seen my number on her cell phone bill. not only that, she isn't sure that he's not reading her emails, etc because he is still pretty furiously jealous of me and furthermore suspects her of sleeping with almost any male that she knows since our relationship had showed her capacity to cheat on him with me. Anyway, last night she asked me not to call any more because his disrespect for her privacy leads to more domestic chaos than she or her kids really need. Having made the choice to stay with him for the kids' sake, there's no sense in making their lives any more miserable than it needs to be, and she needs to honor her priorities.
Yes, it was hurting her family and made her day-to-day life miserable; and no, I don't want to be party to those consequences --yet, I have no regrets for the time that we did manage to share our passions and interests. I believe that it was the deepest romance that either of us have ever experienced. And the few recent conversations did result in a lot of mutual recognition and foregiveness for our actions and reactions during the initial breakup. And, yes, I feel miserable again today --even though I wasn't building up any hopes that we could somehow resume physical intimacies. I'm just feeling like I'm cut off from the most enjoyable friendship that I've ever experienced, with little hope of resuming it before her kids are grown and out fending for themselves, which will be like a decade from now.
However, my answer to your question is YES, follow your heart until it is certain that the expense to others somehow outweighs the joyful side of the equation. As much as it pains me today, I had it to begin all over again, I certainly would. And it's not my fault that she has a less than perfect marriage. If anything, her affair with me was a symptom f their discontents with each other, and certainly not the cause of them.

Hi Joey, it's alot of things... we tried talking again last night but she just is always quiet; nothing to say/add & then I feel like a pitbull on the attack and I hate that - I don't want to be that person. I do love her, I just need a bit more from her. Stress yes, she's a surgery resident so I know her career is demanding plus she has some other things going on that seem to be the cause of us not moving forward because to her she needs these things solved and in place first. To me, time is short and if you want to be with someone you make it work on what you have available etc. (different schools of thought I guess). I also suffered a bit of stress myself: I had a bad accident last year (broke right leg tib/fib shattered in fall and my left index finger) Thankfully I'm doing better, recovered and working and all but when I do have pain/still get tired much faster etc. I am much more easily aggreviated lets say plus now I had to move because the house I was in went up for sale, and obviously she wasn't ready to live together (and the way things are right now, I wouldn't have attempted it anyway)... so together we've been through alot... I just feel like she does avoid situations/discussions/arguements and I'm not sure if it's a 'can't lose' or failure complex but I know when I call her out on anything she either gets really quiet or hangs up on me or changes the subject and tries to act like I don't know about something, and lately she is in this you should just do as your told mode which she was never, ever like that, and I have no idea where that is coming from... and that is the one thing I will not put up with, from anyone... besides everyone knows you can't tell a Virgo what to do LOL. I do want to try and get us back on track, I just don't know how to get past my fustration and try and be calmer, gentler right now if she doesn't make an effort first which from the little I heard from her last night what was she needed or to her it was like negative reinforcement. Funny thing is I have a really good friend that is a Pisces also and she doesn't seem to able to stay in a relationship too long either, and from what I can see she is being treated good. I guess you can date a fish, take them out of the sea, but you can't stuff them in a bowl and keep them happy I suppose! So fustrating... Thanks for trying to help though :)