Damn... I dunno what to say!!

WHAT are the practical reasons!?!?

What's the rest of your astrology, Claire? Ascendant/rising, moon, mars, venus, mercury?

I had a Libra friend once tell me that she dated a Virgo for a while and decided to dump him because he was so good at taking care of her ever need that she could easily see forgetting how to take care of herself if she continued the relationship. We make ourselves damn useful if our way of doing things doesn't bug the crap out of you.

I tend to see relationships through the filter of - why is this person in my life, what is the lesson I am learning from being in this relationship? Some relationships, perhaps this one(?) may be teaching you about what you crave in a relationship via the interaction you've gotten with this Virgo man. Other relationships simply support and encourage our best selves in a gentle way, while others challenge us in a confrontational way.

Generally, Virgo challenges Aquarius to take care of themselves and revel in the physicality of being - quality sex, healthy food, stopping to smell the flowers, massage, supportive and organized home environment, nice clothing, etc. Aquarius usually pushes us to see the big picture and think bigger than just routine wake, wash, eat, work, eat, personal time, sleep, repeat, no matter how sensual and enjoyable (or not) that cycle may be.

I've heard that opposites atrackt especially when comparing astrological charts. Do you have any planets in Pisces? Or do any of your planets fall in his 7th house?(vice versa?) This could indicate a sure attraction between the two of you. Also, if your Venus makes a contact to his Mars or Vice Versa. If any of your planets fall in his 5th house.

I have to say that I fall hopelessly in love with Virgos too. This is a pattern that I have observed about myself but usually after I attain my beloved Virgo's chart I find that it is more than just being a Virgo that attracts me to them.

claire, if you give us a birth date/location/time of you and him, i could help more

Hello,

I'm an Aquarius Sun with Taurus rising and Sagittarius moon.

I've always been enchanted with Virgo women, regardless of how I feel about their insane ways. As I have stated when I first came around, they are cool on the outside, but they are pretty hot to the touch...

The thing about Virgo women, from my brief exposure to them, is that they are interested in being in service, but try to serve them, lol, next to impossible. I can understand about how easy it is to fall for a Virgo, because they simply love to take care of people. How do I know so much about Virgos? LOL! My brother is one! lol!

There has been one Virgo woman that I've slept with, and she can all night long, and she's a quick study when it comes to oral sex.
But when morning comes, don't try to make her stay in bed with you, when the kids need her, or things need to get done around the house, forget it! LOL! That's just my experience, with the feminine side of the Virgo.

Now the masculine side, hmmmm, I don't know. I'm friends with one and everytime I call him, I usually invite him out to share a meal and have a conversation, but when it comes down to paying for the meal, riiiggghttt! He just pulls out his credit card and pays for both of our meals, and it irritates the hell out of me, lol!

So, I know how easy it is to get attached to someone that is always willing to pay for, and to control a sitation.

Sometimes you have to politely tell him, "Stop smothering me, but I love you for it". And then excuse yourself and continue on with taking care of yourself.

: )

Sebastian