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I am a sun sign libra moon sign in scorpio and rising sign in capricorn. I usually find that virgo guys are attracted to me for some reason, I believe that this is because of my style and the way i talk to them. Anyways, I dated 3 virgos so far since last year and the 3 just lied to me (about their personal lives) Why do they have this kind of dilemma, dishonest trait in them? is this insecurity? or they just want to play around with women? The last one I was dating, he was ok, he gave me flowers at my birthday and we both were going to restaurants (enjoying a good time) until one day, he just vanished. I called him and then after a while, he called me back telling me that he was in another state. I was not surprised at all, I know that virgo guys always have their surprises behind them and I knew that he was going to do something like that but I wanted to confirm myself by calling him and letting me know. He is still lying by telling me that he has his uncle who is sick and.... but I think that he is still with his ex ... I am really confused about the way he is, why does he want to hurt someone feelings like this? he sends me text messages telling me that he misses me and blah blah... I just let him go, and let him know that I just want to be his friend no more than that... I dont like casual things I am done. Why virgo guys are like that? or I just dated the wrong virgos guys? the 3 are kind of pervy yes they are, they wanted me to talk about sex, that they wanted it with me and so on... ok so i believe that they just want that , no serious relationship at all.
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Re: Virgos men
Mon, November 10, 2008 - 11:21 PMI am virgo woman and once had a partner (virgo male) who lied all the time, mostly to 'protect me' whatever that means! he had several 'near miss affairs ' without my knowledge before finally going off with someone else. The second virgo male I dated, was possesive to the point he was violent. although he was secretive too. I am still with my taurus guy now and he's a much more suited match. -
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Tue, November 11, 2008 - 9:10 AMI am thinking Virgo's are secretive because they fear they will be judged harshly, or they are also wanting to keep options open. Virgo is represented by the Virgin because she is self contained and does not require another to feel complete. YMMV -
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Tue, November 11, 2008 - 10:27 AMI think i would have to agree with that!
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Tue, November 11, 2008 - 12:45 PMI'd again say rather, Virgos are about "containment", as the glyph of the intact hymen speaks. Virgos don't like loose ends hanging out. Tight and tidy is more Virgoan, no? Think about it. Virgos leave a lot of info on "a need to know" basis. The guy could be lying, but there wasn't enough info to convince me. A person can remain aloof for other reasons besides juggling relationships. I think that would be too messy and more trouble than the typical Virgo would bother with. Just me.
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Tue, November 11, 2008 - 12:47 PMVirgo/Taurus Yummmm. Especially if the Virgo has a lot of Venus energies in them. -
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Tue, November 11, 2008 - 7:40 PMI tell you something oh yes I need help, I used to live with anxiety disorder for around 10 years but I dont talk about this to the virgos I date not even to my close friends... when I have something like that, I just keep myself cool and keep myself at home to calm down however being with wrong virgos is not healthy for me at all... I dont like to lose someone I just need this person with me but if he is like the 3 virgos I dated, I will feel so heart broken inside that It will take years to cure. are there good virgos guys? I just dont know -
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Tue, November 11, 2008 - 8:56 PMI had a Virgo good guy, but yeah, he broke my heart...seems he had a prior commitment...pending pregnancy to be precise.
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Tue, November 11, 2008 - 12:39 PMlol.. if anyone is off taking care of a sick friend/relative, it would be a virgo. You never know, he may have gotten involved with YOU because he thought you needed "help".
And yes, Virgos are not the prudes they have been said to be. Containment of sexuality is not the same as being asexual. Give us the situation where we can discreetly express sexuality fully and you are going to be in for a big surprise if you think Virgos are prudes. We love to improve and perfect, and that also includes orgasms. -
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Tue, November 11, 2008 - 12:45 PMThat's why my taurus mate is perfect for me!
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Tue, November 11, 2008 - 7:34 PMOh virgos they express sex freely? YES they are shameless about this topic. Well, the last one I dated, he promised everything but uhmmm nothing he just vanished, I was not giving him so much credit at all... I know virgos already but why? Why do they have that kind of trait??? the way he expressed his concern about craving for company, for love... is this just words? why he says something that he wants that he needs and then he just dont want it? Anyways, I dont want to confuse my mind and my heart with his problems of insecurity and maybe manipulation to get what he wants... I am not able to stick with it ... I am libra and with the scorpio and capricorn in me would not be able to be happy with this individual at all. Maybe this is curse from my previous life I dont know... hope I can find a better man. -
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Fri, November 14, 2008 - 7:38 PMWell, I'm a virgo the craves love too. But I am also moving a lightening speed. If it isn't happening or at least promising within... whoops... too late... gotta keep moving. There is NOT always tomorrow, so I don't live like there is. -
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Tue, November 18, 2008 - 7:07 PMI am not compatible with virgo guys at all. Everything is appearance for them... if the woman is not that attractive anymore or gain weight or something else... they will not tolerate it and they will start being unfaithful and keep messing around with other women. I know I am judging virgo men but you must understand why my heart is too broken now. there is always a reason why I feel that way. -
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Wed, November 19, 2008 - 8:45 AMHavent ever encountered the behavior (appearance based) you are speaking of in relation to virgo suns.
Perhaps you ought to look at other options that virgo men if that's how you are feeling about them.
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Mon, November 24, 2008 - 9:23 PMDolceLuna, I've not really encountered the appearce issue/unfaithfulness with virgo men personally.I tend to think there may be other reasons he's being evaisve and making you feel unloved? Mabe he does but it's too much to epxress so it comes out the wrong way at the wrong moment? Or what appears to be coldness and distance is only that: appearance on the surface,not whats underneath? I've found virgo men to be too nice,but I realise that I all too often have overlooked quailites that I have missed in the past.One person I know is born on the leo/virgo cusp,literly aug 23 and I have to admit alot of what you described fits some of his behavior.He has venus in virgo and several leo planets,so there's this odd sense of him seeming so frustratingly contradictory.It's a challenge.Perhaps give your guy a change and have alittle more patience,mabe it will work out. -
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Fri, December 5, 2008 - 6:50 PMJag... he just visited me at work but I couldn't talk at all I was feeling too uneasy, nervious. Now, it is like he stares at me and then he is cold and distant. I want him to call me or to tell me to go out with him as he promised before but nothing. So everytime I see him again I feel like he is giving me hope, which is poison for me. He doesnt understand why I am behaving like this, or maybe he knows but he just doesnt want to be with me.... he wants to mess around. I told to him: you are going to dissappear again right?? he just smiled at me and so I did. What I see is that he just wanted a night stand with me just to satisfy his ego that's all. -
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Sun, December 7, 2008 - 6:44 AMDolceLuna, it seems you've answered your own question.If your own gut feelings keep causing you to feel doubts over his behavior and how you feel about him,perhaps bottomline is that it's time to let him go and move on? It's not worth getting all emotional bent out of shape over and being stuck feeling he's just playing a game with your heart. Beat him at his own game and emotionally move on,if he has no time for you...make no time for him.You'll find other men that will treat you better.Some guys are just plain jerks and creeps.gotta weed out the garbage from the geniune diamonds.
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Wed, November 26, 2008 - 10:57 PMWell it depends on the virgo guy some have been wounded in the past and they generally don't trust woman in general,and some it's the opposite you can't really judge all virgo guy's by the same strategy,perhap's he felt that you didn't want him to feel like a man so thats why he left,for a virgo man you most treat him like a man period nothing less,just think of him as a wounded leo,if you hurt his pride he will leave you,and you'll won't get any affection from him,just remember the virgo man has a heart,so if you don't treat him like a man, he''ll feel like you just wanna manipulate him and try to make himself feel less then what he deserves, then he'll move on to someone else, who would give him confidence, love and peace, respect,thats the only way to win his heart back,believe me the sex thing lol is just a test to see if you'll
summit to him if he asked you,cause the Virgo man wants to feel like he's in control,and if you give him that! he'll love you for it! lol
no joke the blunt honest truth lol,well you have nothing to worry about virgo guys like to give and take,and they can last longer then most signs even Scorpio's lol so believe were intense too lol,shoot myself I was with a scorpio girl and to put it bluntly lol she only lasted two hours and she came twice lol and she was screaming my name "oh chris!oh chris!" lol I needed both of those two hours plus 30 minutes lol now that was intense lol so let that fuck with yo mind lol,I hope what I said helps lol
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Sat, November 29, 2008 - 6:34 AMwe dont need to know that she was screaming your name... TMI (too much information) haha =] -
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Sat, November 29, 2008 - 6:12 PMlol thats a true pimp baby lol =),well hey at least I was being honest lol,but it's all good,
these girl's just don't know lol,how intense we really are lol,yeah but I know TMI lol
I was just trying to give us Virgo guys some credit,people act like we're prude's
when we're not lol,but I guess that's all part of people not having the whole details,
and just analyzing the body and not a Virgo's soul,and not seeing the inner person,
believe me most Scorpio's only know half the details and the rest they just made up lol
to fill in the blanks lol,cause unlike what most people think we have deep secret's too
lol
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Sat, November 29, 2008 - 5:49 PMI've been involved with at least 3 Virgo men in my life. I hardly think lumping all "Virgo men" in one catagory is fair. The one's I attract and that are attracted to me all had Venus in Leo in common with me. Besides all being very loving and attentive and having great sexual chemistry and drive, they don't have much in common.
Straight up, if most ANY man is NOT interested in you he acts strange and gives mixed signals, conveniently dissapears, or has "other" commitments he previously forgot about. Virgo or no, you are apparently attracting men that can't tell their head from their asses and it's time to start learning the pattern that allows you to sniff them out before they bring their shit anywhere near you. If you want to use astrology as your sleuthing technique, I recommend figuring out the rest of their charts and seeing what else they also have in common. -
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Mon, December 1, 2008 - 7:31 AMI have to agree with Wendy,it's too easy to lump people together based on their sign,when people are complex and unique.That and having to go through one's own natal chart,I know for myself certain issues/conflict pop up alot and they tend to relate to certain indications that aren't described by my sun in virgo alone.It's a two way street.Figuring out what is me( my issue/conflict) and what is them (their issues/conflict) based on what is there in their chart.Mabe it's dead on,mabe at times it could be alittle off but it puts things in perspective without trying to control or manipulate,(using astrology to one up somebody) which I feel is wrong.My feelings anyway.
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Sat, November 29, 2008 - 6:29 PM^Yeah thats true some Virgo guys have honor and some are ruthless ,it depend's a pond if the man your dating
values his own principles or not,me I always stuck to my principles,even when they fail me or make me feel crazy lol
but I'd suggest you'd bring up the subject of principles with your Virgo man,and ask him what does he really want?
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Sat, November 29, 2008 - 7:16 PMI've been with a lot of virgo men. They are the most compatible for me, sexually... even more than scorpios. Honestly, most scorpios I've been with get kind of boring after a while... :-S
The only thing I have to complain about virgo men is that for me, the ones I have been with were sort of self-centered, or totally wanted to be babied all the time. I guess that can be the case with most men though, right? lol -
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Sat, November 29, 2008 - 9:48 PMRe: Virgos men
I've been with a lot of virgo men. They are the most compatible for me, sexually... even more than scorpios. Honestly, most scorpios I've been with get kind of boring after a while... :-S
The only thing I have to complain about virgo men is that for me, the ones I have been with were sort of self-centered, or totally wanted to be babied all the time. I guess that can be the case with most men though, right? lol
Yeah thats true! we'll all have have our inner child us men lol,but as for the selfish part lol thats not me tho,
but I have little Cancer in my chart, so maybe thats why I'm a bit more sensitive to girls needs lol,
as for other Virgo guy's they usually have a bit of Taurus in them so maybe thats why?
Taurus = self centered lol,as for Scorpios there a bit too drama for my tastes,always wanna make a mess out of relationships and hurt the people they love.
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Sat, November 29, 2008 - 8:53 PMI guess they wanted some sexual justice lol,but na beleive me lol they probally wanted more then that I think they were just testing the waters to see what would you say lol,I think they were just trying to tease you lol,or make a joke about it lol one or the other lol -
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Fri, December 5, 2008 - 11:32 PMI was was talking to the Libra^ on that one if you find me a bit unclear lol,anyways tho I'm sure you'll find most
Virgo men are different depending on there birth date lol,but it's up to you tho just take my advice,
into considerations aight SJ ok lol
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